January 27, 2021

Everything is your fault

Everything is your fault

I am not successful and happy because I don’t have a good job and my boss hates me
I don’t have my own company because the government doesn’t help me
Everybody hates me
I don’t have a good life because my boss doesn’t pay me enough
I am miserable because of my partner
I did not approve the class because my classmate didn’t share his protect

And the list goes on

It might sound obvious but a lot of people are always blaming everybody else, let’s accept it. Some people are lucky and the rules of the game are not the same for everyone but, the fact that you are miserable is up to you.

I am tired of hearing people that are always relaying and blaming their partners, jobs, families for their happiness and success.

Stop blaming others and victimizing yourself.

I will say it again

Stop blaming others and victimizing yourself.

It is your fault!

It is true, bad things will always happen but nobody hates you, you are not that important and nobody owns you anything. If you wanna be successful in your way you will have to work smart and get it.

  • Read books,
  • Learn something new
  • Travel
  • Eat healthily
  • Dance
  • Create meaningful relationships
  • Join commuities
  • Look for professional help, it is ok to be bad, depression is real and you can get over it.

Does your boss hate you?

Change your job

Is your partner a horrible person?

Get away from there

Don't you earn enough?

Learn something new

Stop wasting your energy on things that are not helping you at all

Remember next time that you feel unhappy, angry, or frustrating think twice before blaming somebody else. And if you ever earn something new be grateful to those who helped you and... YES, That would be your fault too.